crying is overrated

Last month, a friend of mine cried & pour her heart out saying her man cheated on her & this week i saw them happily dining together..i was like ?????? thats when i started thinking abt the past & it makes me wonder how do i ever went thru all these drama's in relationship, cheating men, controlling men...& what did i do? i stayed by their side for years...then i start pondering, y do some of these women stayed in the relationship when they knoe ther's no future? is it coz they think that by waiting they hoped that the men will change & then they can have a future or these women jus love to torture themselves?

someone wise once told me its better to be disliked for being who you are than to be loved for who you are not.. see in my experience, i stayed in the relationship changing myself hoping that he would change & hence the relationship would change....well looked where that got me...straight to hell.. i shud hav known better that i shudnt change myself...infact rather than changing me, i shud be focusing on me...& i shud be thinkin "what do i get from this guy by being with him?" sadly there are plenty of women out there...wondering & crying on y do their men torture them & yet their still with these men....ask yourself back sweetie? y r u with them if they torture u? LOVE? if torture is love then my dear you need a new dictionary...

open your eyes ladies, there are so many other good men & dun waste your time on these jerks...he doesnt deserve you..enuff sed....

just remember this, "when u stand up for yourself in a dignified, feminine n womanly way, you can get anything you want from a man. When u place a high value on yourself in the right way,

so will he" sherry argov

till then c u:)

dress me up baby

OLA...yeay my blog hav been beautified by my lovely &

talented sister... the more reason for me to keep writting...m so xcited coz its so purtttyy hehehhe & its so maju with all the widgets & stuff...even i dun even knoe how to add these things lol...

okay back to the brides....im gonna talk more on brides dresses....there are so many new & upcoming creative designs of wedding outfit/gown but no matter how you think fit with ur taste, there are a few lingo in the design world that you shud be familliar of when u sit next to your designer...(so u dun look like duhhh) hehheheh . True enuff u shud trust ur designer's design

but m sure u bride to be browse like gazillion bride mags to find a designs dat suits ur liking...

Anyhow here's some style savy for u peeps....so when u browse those mags...u can look for the best cut for your body style :)

*Ball Gown- It features a fitted bodice, contrasted by a dramatic, full skirt

will suit: most figures, but may overwhelm shorter and more petite brides. ball gown is fantastic for diguising wide hips and large thighs and can also help balance out bustier brides

*A-line- as the name suggests, this silhouette boast a fitted bodice that

slopes gently outwards from the waistline to form a triangular 'A' shape.

will suit: jus abt everyone, but shud be avoided if ur waist is thick

*Princess- This silhouette is very similar to the A-line, with vertical seams runn

ing frm the shoulders to the hemline.

will suit- tall,short, slim, voluptuous- the princess

-style flatters most figure

*slip dress- the figure hugging slip dress. bias cut fabric caresses the curves in a style that is both elegant and sophisticated.

will suit- brides who are fairly slim but feminine-curves are needed to make a statement

*sheath/column- straight & sexy. the sheath is very fitted and slimline style that follows the line of the body. It has no defined waistline. the column differs from the sheath in that it is cut with a straight weft and vertical seams to hug the figure.

will suit-fairly tall, slender brides, but may also add an illusion of height to petite figures

*mermaid- A narrow style that fits to the body then flairs out below the knee. not an easy style to wear as it actually adds curves

will suit- slim & athletic or those with an in- proportion hourglass figure

*bustle back- remember that gorgeous dress from titanic? the one that went out at the back? well thats bustle back.

will suit- women who's got bust & bum like kate from titanic

*empire- a high waisted silhouette with the skirt

beginning just below a cropped bodice

will suit- thick waisted & boxy figures & petite brides as well....

So go on ladies...check & c whether the style dat u've had in mind suits ur figure...after all the wedding is all abt u :)

ok till then c u :)

the hunt begins

Amazing how im enjoying blogging now...hehehh anywayz im gonna jump for a bit from dresses to videographers, ive been hunting for video experts and im getting frustrated with it....its coz im very particular when comes to my wedding video...see me & my youngest sis hav been meddling with video making since we were in school which makes it more challenging coz i knoe wat kinda of flow i want in my video & after years of experience in helping her directing videos...its jus killing me that my video standards are very very high...

• Manggis was the choice that ive decided on my wedding video, regardless of the cost...unfortunately someone already took them first :( so dats when the hunting begins...

• went to CST- their video has good quality (DSLR), a few of their montage are quite alrite...but i find them very inconsistent with their highlights (some are good some not so) + they havent given me the quotes yet.

• shutterspeak- not to bad...but CST has better highlights

• prettypeektures- ALot more too learn

• inmotions- great video highlight (great music selection, good flow) one of my choices...but the principal who does all the editing is getting married on the 10.10.10..jus a week after my wed so he's not available (great price tooo) :(

im an arsty person so i want my video highlight to be exciting, romantic and at the same time everytime when i watch it i want it to touch my heart ...& im a video person rather than a photo person so videos are rather important to me....& many video sampless that i've seen are not at par wit my standards or doesnt hav IT'...hmmm memilih kan hehhehe.. oh well 2 more appointments next week will c....hehhehe

videographer selection tips

1) before paying them the deposit make sure u agree on the DELIVERY TIME... sign on it...avoid waiting tooooo damn long for ur wedding video..ur their client tooo u deserve the best quality service WITH or without discount....

2) never agree to pay 100% before u received the final goods...

3) make sure they come recce (have a look at ur hse, see how long the cable they need, wher's best to put ur pelamin for a better view in the camera, lighting issue)your house...eventho they say they are pro...dun leave it up to ur wedding day for them to setup their cables & wires...

ok till then c u:)

trying to keep up

hey its been a while since i blog...well im not a person who blog much..trying to keep up with the e world is my weakness...dun even hav a diary hehhehe...i'm the sort of person who likes to talk not blog unlike my sis she lurves blogging & building up websites..m inspired by bloggers that i've read in these few days...wow some of them really had good insights on weddings...especially since im myself m getting married so there are alot of things that need to be done & since im running my own IT company ive been very bz.

in my recent blog i've written about wat kinda bride u wanna be...as for me i've chosen to be a romantic bride...& i've met with my designer the other day & talked on the kinda dress that i wanted for my nikah & reception...i'm luving my designer's designs....some of the inspirations for my dress

As for my designer, philip a family designer...i love the way he looked at u & straight away he knows what u love...& he's very easy to work with & his work is beautiful & his attention to detail is emaculate. he did my sisters dresses for her wedding & i love love his work...so ladies..before you choose a designer, make sure

1) you love his/her work

2) comfortable working with them

3) they are able to hear & listen 2 wat u want

till then c u:)