Thursday, July 15, 2010

Part 2 to u from me


ok so now that u've had a vision board on what u want....hav u been looking at it everyday? do u believe that u'll achieve it? now here's the part where i tell u to believe the impossibility.... dun be discouraged by saying OHHHnnnoooo here comes the positive thinking....well dats right u gotta be positive that u will absolutely achieve your goals.... if u dun belive, no one else will believe it for u...n bare in mind that YOU DUN HAV TO SEE IT TO BELIEVE IT...if u see it in ur mind u'll see it in ur eyes...

being optimistic also doesnt help if u heart doesnt believe or have the passion towards your goal...i'll give u n example, say u wanna find ur life partner by the end of the year.... but if ur actions and ur belive doesnt sync....i can guarantee that u'll be disappointed...so when u want something....let the people know, ( well you dun hav to announce it on ur FB or twitter status) what i mean is when people ask u when r u gonna kahwin, alwayz & alwayz answer something positive that way your reminding yourself that u wan to find your life partner & never contradicting yourself....sometimes when u tell people, doors open... & if u contradict ur self...opportunity might pass u by....

now that u have a vision board.... for it to be more effective i want you to visualize the event in detail how u achieve your goal...of course u may not know how, but create an event in ur mind & play it like its a memory.....for eg, if u wanna find ur life partner, create an event how u meet him...maybe at a restaurant? or a function..... picture it in ur mind how u wan him to approach u....visualize it like ur playing a movie in ur head.... now do this every nite before u go to bed....
Now the most important part of this process....is when u visualize this event in ur head....u hav to believe it with ur head & heart that u gonna meet this person...even better if u could include how u feel when u meet this guy (nervous, excited).....feeling how u get what u want is important coz it create good feelings and when u constantly hav good feelings good things comes when ur feeling good....

ever notice when 1 bad thing happend in a day, more bad things happen later on that day (if u stick to being bad mood)...so u gotta keep having good feelings...to help create good things...
(will write more later)
so wat i want u to focus now is to visualize the event in ur head & believe it like it had already happened...insyaAllah.... i've done this...people close to me had done it... so its all up 2 u...how bad do u want change??


Thursday, July 1, 2010

Material girls





Was jus talking to my designer regarding my wedding dress...m still not sure to do 2 piece or a dress...(of course la kene cover, maklumla my parents are very conservative pple...alasan die...nanti org kata tak senonoh la...blablabla...) ok enuff of me...while we were discussing abt my reception outfit...we got to talking abt materials or kain 2 buy...

it got me thinking abt some of my friends when they expressed their anxiety when they purchased such lovely materials but unable to do much with it due to the material condition...
so m gonna give u some of the designers advice to me on looking for your material...

before you go all excited to shop for you wedding dress fabric, decide on the design u want or shud i say suits ur body type, then consult ur designer on what fabrics is the best for that particular design...that way u knoe how many meters u need ( u wldnt accidentally buy extra coz the sales girl told u that the fabric is on discount ) your lining fabrics, your veil fabrics if u need any lace (to patch it on ) & so on so forth.... Yeah i knoe it can be great fun browsing thru the many exquisite fabrics available, BUT DONT BE TEMPTED to purchase anything until you've double- checked with an expert or u could end up making a very EXPENSIVE mistake...

so, before u buy....

1) find a style that suits u
2) call or search for a designer at your liking
3) make appointment & discuss the style...let the designer turn the style into a design...
with the approve design....

1) either ask your designer type of fabric /
2) take a small fabric sample for approval or better yet
3) take your designer to go fabric shopping with you (p/s : did you knoe designers/ tailors get special discount from fabric stores...bonus points for your budget!!!

so even though u want that beaded chiffon sooo badly.....Sabar ye....wait & c what your designer says...after all he/she are the industry experts....Then all you need to do is take a deep breath, relax and let your designer create magic with you beautiful bridal fabric....

ok till then c u :)