Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Searching for the perfect dress....


Now you've decided what kinda bride you wanna be.
..now lets narrow it down to what kinda dress is suitable for your body type, no matter wats your body type, if u wear something that suits you, you will look fabulous & stunning...forget the pictures in the magazine's that u've browse for a minute...find out wats ur body type whether its PEAR, HOURGLASS, APPLE, ATHELETIC/ SLIM or PETTITE

Pear shaped- pear shaped body is one that has narrow shoulders, small breasts, small waistline and heavier bottom with curvier butt and bigger hips. This kind of body tends to make you look unbalanced with a very small upper body, big out of proportion lower body with short legs. You should dress to balance your body shape and hide the pear shape as much as possible.



Pear Girls’ Guide to the Top Bits

Your Goals: Balance is the key word here, and for you it’s all about drawing the eye up and balancing what's going on below.

Necklines: V neck tops help balance out your shoulders and add shape to the bust area. Detailed necklines are also a great choice. Things like beading, ruching or pleating across the bust will add shape and give a fuller effect.

Strappy: Few people can really get away with the strapless or strappy thing like you can. Embrace it and go with it - everyone else is jealous, I assure you.

Minimise: Minimise the bottom half by going crazy with the top. Think silk, bright colours, detailing and all the rest. These will draw the eye up and when paired with dark basics or solid tones on the bottom will balance your entire figure.

Maximise: Many pear shaped girls would prefer a little more weight along the torso. You can fake this by going for ruching or buy padded bras and enhancers.

Remember... It’s great to be pear shaped because you can wear all the tops that others can’t. Stock up on silks and strapless numbers and watch other girls turn green with envy.




Hourglass-An hourglass body type has moderate to large bust and hips, and a small waist-generally 10 inches smaller than the bust and hips. The hourglass is the most highly desired body type for women due to its femininity. Dressing to flatter the hourglass body type focuses on proportion, since the top and bottom half balance out so well.


Your Goals: Showing off your assets stylishly will slim an hourglass frame, bringing the eye to areas you love while helping you skim over areas you’re not so confident with.

Shape It: Wrap around tops and dresses are great for an hourglass as they emphasise your naturally thin waist. The same goes for cinched waist anything or items that belt or cinch at the true waist. Tailoring is your key here.

De Bulk: Thin weight fabrics like matt suiting gives a slimming line to your figure but doesn't add bulk. Keep this in mind when shopping for knitwear as well – the finer the knit the more flattering the finish.

Support: This includes supportive semi-firm fabrics in a dress to supportive bras that lift the bust or thicker straps on a top that keep a nice line across the shoulders. Because you have curvy figure support is key – keep this in mind when looking for any items.

Neckline: You will find items that come to a V are the most flattering along the neck. This is because they draw the eye down to the décolletage but also slim and narrow your quite wide chest. Because hourglass figures usually boast larger busts it's also important to keep this in mind, and not make a large bust look completely out of proportion by pairing it with a neckline that is too high.

Matte and Monotone: Keeping colours monochromatic gives a stylish finish and keeps you looking really well proportioned. While you can definitely wear colours and patterns well, care must be taken to not look too over the top. The more muted the better.

Sleevey: Sleeves not only add a little more shape across the shoulders, they are also a great way to flatter bigger arms. Fluted, three quarter and puff sleeves can instantly slim the entire arm as well as adding another layer of dimension.



If your legs and hips are slimmer than your upper half, you may fall into the APPLE category. The most flattering clothing styles will help you appear narrower in the shoulders and waist, and accentuate your best features, which are your legs and chest.



Your Goals: Accentuate slim arms and décolletage (you lucky things), whilst bringing some shape to your waist and balancing the torso.

Create a Waist: Doing so will slim down and balance your entire figure. Think cinched waist tops, waist belts, tailored nipped waist jackets and wrap around tops.

Flesh Focus: Show off your slim arms with great sleeve detailing. Cap sleeves, sleeveless tops and detailing around the shoulders are all great ideas. Remember that your full bust is also a great feature, go for tops that show this off!

Minimise: Darker colours and more matte or basic fabrics on top can help minimise and slim a torso whilst detailing around the neckline or below brings attention to great assets.

Empire: Empire line dresses will create balance and will disguise any areas you want to hide. You can even go with a large print that will keep all eyes on you whilst breaking up your frame and slimming the figure.



Your shape is... Petite
You have: A c
ute compact and lean body like Eva Longoria, Kylie Minogue and Natalie Portman.

Petite body types are smaller and often naturally toned. They will have broad shoulders and short legs. You're compact and small and for you it is all about creating length and curves and, of course, keeping it all in proportion.




Petite Girls’ Guide to the Top Bits

Your Goals: To keep the eye moving from top to bottom, to create flow from your top half to your bottom half and of course to not swamp your delicate figure.

One Tone: One colour top to toe will create proportion, lengthen the figure and all the while give you a great silhouette.

All in Proportion: Tops that are shorter in length, cropped jackets that don’t fall below the hips and items that are detailed just under the bust all give you a sense of proportion to your body. This means a perfectly balanced frame.

Chiffon and Sheer: Over wraps and tops in a sheer fabric (like chiffon, lace and tulle) allow you to add layers to an outfit and a little curve to your body, while still keeping the line of your body clear. It’s something that Kylie uses all the time – think a sheer chiffon caftan with a plaited waist tie over skinny leg denim.


Slim and athletic types will be straight up and down, perhaps with not much of a bottom or bust. You're straight and narrow and for you it is all about creating curves, curves curves!


Your Goals: Curve, curve, curve is the call of the day!

Strap and Strapless: Strapless bodices, form fitting shapes and strappy complex necklines are all something that smaller frames can get away with. So do it!

Print It: Little prints, contrasting colours and mixed and matched prints all add texture, which means curves in all the right places.

Shape Maker: Anything that creates shape is your best friend, such as pleating, detailing, beading, prints, pleats, ruching, silk and knitwear. All of these items create curves on the bust and hips which make them great options for slim girls.

Bold and Beautiful: Large jewellery (particularly necklaces) and bold colours around the neckline and top half keep all eyes on you and add a bit more depth to your frame. Choose colours that are punchy yet complement your skin tone.

Waisted: The illusion of a waist can be created in a number of ways, from belts around the waist to well-cut tailored jackets which flare out just below the waist.

Don’t Swamp: Tailored items will always look best on you, while boxy items will just swamp your body. You need tailoring to create form. This goes for the bottom half too.


now u knoe which body type are u.....now goooo look for dresses with ur body type!!! & also now u can exercise concentrating which part of your body u want to look best ;p

till then c u :)

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Chapter 1- all about the bride



The first chapter is the bride's clothes.
why i choose this as the first chapter is because i think the bride is the main & most important thing in a wedding...therefore brides you come first yes not the THEME not the decor YOU first...

little birdie: You decide what you wanna wear first then you decide the theme :)

Ok so lets start with what kind of bride you wanna be....knowing wat kinda bride you wanna be can help you narrow down what theme you want.

here are a few to start with...

- Romantic bride

You want your wedding to be filled with flowers & candle, you've been dreaming of wearing white & only white for your wedding.. doesnt mean you don't like colors, you may wanna wear colors, but you opt for soft romantic colors....


















Traditional bride
tradional babes you could play with lots off colours other than white, you probably dreamed of wearing songket with lots traditional hair accessories. this doesnt mean your options are just bright colors, you could also wear white but with a traditional design :)









-Fairytale bride

You dream of being a princess on your day & you love pastel colors such as pink, lavender...
















Modern bride

simple is your motto, you have a specific design in your mind.



























What if you wanna be modern & traditional, well you could if that's wat u opt for.. the whole point of knowing which bride you wanna be helps you eliminate all the other options you find for mags or people's suggestion...this way when ur thinking of a theme its makes it easier...so decide what kinda bride you wanna be, it might be romantic & modern or fairytale & romantic, whatever you decide, the theme will follow you..........


so till then c u 2moro :)







where to start



Im very excited to start my very first blog coz never in my life i be the kinda person to write a blog or even write anything...so here it goes...Im getting married soon and yess this blog is about weddings & some bits of its gonna be about my preparations but so, im gonna write about wedding planning which caters to each brides helping brides or more specifically malaysian digital native era brides who has no idea where to start & what to do...with an experience as an event planner & recently help planned my sister's wedding, hope this would do good to future to be brides in KL :)

So, wat is there in a typical malay wedding planning? usually a standard malay wedding would consist of, Nikah (solemnazation), Berinai Besar/kecil (family blessing & gathering), Sanding (extended family gathering) & reception ( For the parents friends). Malay weddings these days are huge & the guest list would go from a minimum 600-1200 (in KL). Alrite now to the good stuff... hehehheh...

No matter how many days is your ceremony, all of these ceremonies have few things in common & these are the things that you have to narrow it down before anything...

Decor- Pelamin & floral arrangement, dulang hantaran, bride's bouquet
Bride & groom's Clothing- make-up, accessories including bridesmaid & best's man
venue- location, food, emcee, band
Wedding favors- including wedding cake
Photographer & videographer- custom montage, pre & post.
stationery- invitations, thank you cards,guest of honour, seating arrangement

With each & every event that you plan, they all must hav the things that i list down above, however, depending on the event, there are other important things that is fairly important as well, however, i'll talk more on each event accordingly in later blogs.....

Now about me, looking for inspiration on what should i do with my life, i love doing events & i love weddings, some people told me to start a wedding planning business, but i dunno, there are tooo many wedding planners out there in KL, really good ones to, im looking for something different & so while i was browsing a wedding mag, i told to myself, i could do this, i could write a blog helping malay brides plan their weddings at the same time help me plan my wedding without having tooo much in my hands :)

Ok intro done...see you 2moro :)